Our Wedding Court
Holly Rodgers | Officiant
I first met Oscar almost 10 years ago when he and my husband, Dustin, were spending a lot of time together creating what is now College Together. I remember how nice and fun Oscar was to be around. There was never any drama, just big smiles and lots of laughter. When we had our daughter, Grace, it is no exaggeration that Oscar loved her deeply, proudly showing off her pictures and videos as if she were family. Then when he met Alex and brought her magic into our lives, it was a total came changer! Grace would absolutely light up around these two, always running to them first for hugs. Over the past several years, our friendship has blossomed through Vegas vacations, Super Bowl championships, birthdays, Halloween parties, Christmas parties – basically all celebrations! I am so honored that, not only did they ask Grace to be a flower girl and Dustin to be a member of the Grooms court, but that they asked me to be their officiant! What a dream come true!
Nadia Kirsch | Maid of Honor
I’ve been lucky enough to know Alex since the day I was born. She was waiting for me outside the delivery room, and she’s been there for me every day since. From playing dress up with our mom’s clothes, to dancing around in tutus, to watching her try on her wedding dress - we’ve been best friends since the beginning. And I am incredibly grateful to have the honor of standing by her side during the best day of her life.
Aly Murray
Oscar and I met in 2022 through a fellowship for nonprofit founders called ELF. Becoming friends with Oscar permanently changed my bar for what it means to be a good friend—he’s the most thoughtful and kind person I know! I’m lucky to receive his postcards, weekly Chinese texts, and delicious food recs. 谢谢Oscar!
Amrita Singh
To know Oscar is to love Oscar. Oscar is that rare kind of person who just gets people - always reaching out, remembering the little things, and making you feel like a VIP in your own life. We kicked off our friendship with me treating his jaw and him paying me in cocktails, which pretty much set the tone: unexpected, fun, and full of heart.
Anar Bhatt
Alex and my friendship is woven with love, loyalty, and the quiet strength of sisterhood. In life’s most difficult moments, Alex was my constant—graceful, steady, and full of heart. She cared for my daughter as if she were her own and filled the silence with unwavering presence. To stand beside her as a bridesmaid is a heartfelt honor and a reflection of a bond that has only deepened with time.
Anne Marie Rhoads
I am a proud to call Oscar my brother (mostly to watch the confusion on peoples faces). Oscar moved in with me in 2015, and we lived together for 5 years before he moved in with Alex. From diswasher misadventures to being traumatized by the worlds largest dragonfly, our friendship has been chef’s kiss* perfection. I am so excited to officially have Alex as a (honorary) sister-in-law!
Catalina Ramos
Oscar and I have been pseudo-siblings since 2012 when Oscar spent the summer interning for the School Reform Commission and was subsequently taken in by the Ramos and Miller families for regular family dinners. Oscar is an excellent bro, uncle, and family photographer!
Dustin Rodgers
Throughout my 41 years, I've had the privilege of getting to know many people from all walks of life. Yet, I have never known anyone quite like Oscar. He stands uniquely apart in a world where many blend into the background of life. His genuine character, passionate spirit, and inherent goodness create a rare presence that is difficult to capture in words. One thing that distinguishes Oscar from others is his remarkable attention to things most might overlook. He remembers personal preferences, notices the small details, and recalls specifics from what might seem like a fleeting conversation. Because of this, interactions with him will make you feel genuinely valued in a world that often prioritizes efficiency over meaningful connection. I am proud to call him a friend and look forward to many more personal and professional adventures together!
Dylan Slinger
Oscar and I met at a high school speech & debate tournament in 2011 - we were friendly competitors until we becamee great friends while attendeding college in the Philadelphia area. For the last decade, Oscar and my friendship has grown thanks to hundreds of meals and thousands of drinks, our shared interest in politics and community organizations, and a real commitment to the deep conversations that help two people figure out how to make the most of this life.
Elizabeth Ferruzzi
Alex and I met at 14 years old at our dance studio, and after a car ride and a peanut song, became fast friends. She is as close as a sister to me, knowing each other for almost 20 years. Whether we spend days or years apart, we always pick up the conversation as if no time has passed, and she is dear to my heart.
Elizabeth Vandenberg
Alex and I met at Bryn Mawr College when they were lab partners in Biology 101. Over ten years later, we’re both back in Philly, scampering about and eating lots of dessert. Alex is one of the most generous, kindest, and smartest people I know. I met Oscar on Alex and Oscar’s third date, and I amso happy to have become friends with Oscar through Alex. I’m so excited to be with them on their wedding day!
Grace Bedinghaus
My sister from another mister and bff’s from the start. Two months and 5 minutes apart by age and spirit. We have danced together since we were 5 years old and continue to dance through life together! So excited to see Alex and Oscar take this new journey and to gain a brother from another mother!
Janaki Perera
Alexandra and my friendship began in high school at a science camp, on Alexandra’s birthday. Despite just meeting, I couldn’t resist surprising her with a passion fruit iced tea from Starbucks. That small gesture sparked an instant connection, and the two of us became inseparable. We spent our days running through camp halls, dancing, competing in camp games, and staying up late talking or watching Doctor Who. After camp our bond only grew stronger—whether it was road trips to camp reunions, theme park adventures, celebrating milestones, or swapping passionate voice memos about books. Through graduations, late-night chats, and countless memories, Alexandra and I have always been there for one another, building a friendship that’s lasted through every chapter of life.
Jason Wang
As brothers, Oscar and I spent the majority of their pre-adult lives together, so it's a rare treat to see a photo where we’re both smiling at the same time. I wish Alex "good luck" and remind her that there are "no refunds" after the wedding.
Jon Yu
From meeting at the Haverford College music library to exploring Taiwan to finding the perfect 3.5 star Chinese restaurant, Oscar is an amazing friend who has always lifted me up and found time to celebrate life’s moments big and small. There’s no one else with whom I’d rather have unlimited steak frites or recite random Jack Ma quotes.
Kelsey Ryan
Oscar and I met at Haverford, when a stroke of wild luck made us suitemates in the noble North Dorms during Oscar’s first year.
A thousand DC dinners at old-people hours, three years and a summer of being roommates, only one or two blood pacts, and ensuing years of occasional but delightful trips to see each other later, I’m still so glad to be in Oscar’s orbit — and so excited for him & Alex!!
Lauren Bilski
Alex and I instantly clicked when we met at dance club. Finding a fellow Disney obsessed girlie who was also super excited to keep dancing, make art, and ruffle feathers was a literal dream come true! I could always count on Alex to keep me laughing through the most stressful times. Even now, almost a decade since we first started dancing together, the chaos of our late night rehearsals, Alex’s use of sound effects instead of steps, and our unintentional blooper reels are my favorite videos to scroll back to. Alex was the most iconic bridesmaid of all time in my wedding (truly her wardrobe skills SAVED the day) and I can only hope to be half as good for her big day!
Lili Elsesser
I met Alex during my sophomore year and Alex’s freshman year of college, and we immediately bonded over our shared love of costumes and all things whimsical. It wasn’t long before I considered Alex an important part of my Bryn Mawr nuclear family, sharing almost nightly dinners, Ardmore dates, and weekend trips to King of Prussia together. While I moved back home to the West Coast after graduation, Alex and I have remained close over the years, and Alex was a bridesmaid my wedding in 2016. Lili is so thankful to have Alex in her life and is looking forward to being a bridesmaid for Alex as well!
Lucia Echegori Zabalza
Alex and I met at Bryn Mawr when she showed up at my dorm room like a fairy godmother with a lifetime supply of tutus, and she’s been my parabatai ever since. I don’t know anyone else that I love and admire so much, and watching her grow up into the incredible woman she is today makes me so proud. I’m so happy for you, babygirl!
Lynne Ammar
The first time I met Alex I was doing homework in the hallway of our Bryn Mawr dorm late at night.. It was our first semester and it was tough. I was tired and grumpy and quite honestly feeling lonely and overwhelmed. And Then, this girl comes out of her room running, giggling and doing cartwheels at 1am. Anyone who has ever met Alex knows she is a walking ray of sunshine. She is a real life Disney princess and if unicorns existed she would most definitely have one as a side kick. She came and sat next to me that night and we immediately clicked. It’s fair to say that we have almost nothing in common but we have loved each other ever since. I am so grateful for her presence in my life and lucky that I was behind on homework that day. Love you Alex and wish you and Oscar all the happiness in the world! If you somehow get your hands on a real unicorn, please let me pet it.
Nabeel Zewail
Oscar is the best friend you could ask for. He's always there for his loved ones and so generous hearted with those of us in his life! Can't wait to celebrate Oscar and Alex ❤️!
Markus Brazill
Oscar and my friendship kindled in high school, where I mentored Oscar for two years on the speech and debate and mock trial teams. Our friendship, forged over many afterschool practices and weekend tournaments, endured as we drifted from Southern California to Washington, DC and Philadelphia.